BABY
Baby Bedtimes: What to Do if Newborn Baby Will Not Sleep
Clues bedtime is too late...or too early!

Written by
Dr. Harvey Karp

Being overtired makes children energetic! The Sleep in America poll found that overtired children take almost 20% longer to fall asleep. While that is true, infants who go to bed too early put up a good fight at bedtime as well.
To end the nightly struggle, you will want to figure out your baby’s ideal bedtime.
Baby Bedtimes
The average 3-month-old’s bedtime is around 21:30. Yet, as infants get older their bedtime gets earlier, dropping to 20:30…and earlier.
Researchers found that newborn babies who went to bed before 21:00 slept significantly longer overall (13 hours) than those who went down after 21:00 (11.8 hours).
Most babies drift off easily and sleep longer when they are laid down before they get tired and bug-eyed. But if you push for a baby bedtime that is too early, your little buddy just may not be tired. Yes, you are walking a real fine line here!
Clues a Newborn Bedtime Is Too Early
- He fights falling asleep for 30 to 60 minutes.
- He shows no sign of fatigue at bedtime.
- He wakes up in the middle of the night or very early the next day, refreshed and raring to go.
The solution: Try pushing your routine 15 minutes later every 2 to 3 nights to nail the right bedtime.
Clues a Baby Bedtime Is Too Late
- She fights falling asleep for 30 to 60 minutes.
- She is moody and irritable and falls asleep during the day in the car or stroller.
- She takes naps over 2 hours long.
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